Uncommon Moves for Big Impact

I’m curious - how often do you slow down to appreciate the little things in your life? Not just the big wins or milestones, but the small, often-overlooked moments and people who make your life richer.

This season, I want to challenge you to lean into what I call uncommon appreciation. It’s not just saying “thank you” or checking a box. It’s about noticing what others miss - the stuff that’s easy to overlook-and valuing it in a way that feels intentional and unique.

Why It Matters

Uncommon Appreciation has a ripple effect. In relationships, it fosters deeper trust and connection. In business, it can transform dynamics, elevate loyalty, and create a culture of abundance. When people feel seen and valued, they show up differently-and so do you.

Did you know that when you appreciate something, your brain releases dopamine, the "reward" chemical? Studies show practicing gratitude can increase happiness by up to 25% and improve relationships, productivity, and even physical health. But here's where it gets interesting: when gratitude becomes more specific and intentional-uncommon appreciation-it activates parts of the brain associated with creative problem-solving and innovation.

Think of it like this: appreciation amplifies what you focus on. Research by Harvard Business Review even suggests that businesses rooted in a culture of appreciation see higher retention rates, better team morale, and greater long-term success. Now imagine the ripple effects when you apply this principle to your personal life. As my mentor, Scott deMoulin, says- “What you appreciate will appreciate.  What you don’t appreciate will depreciate.”

How To Put It Into Action This Month: 

1. Write a specific thank-you note, email or text. Not a “thanks for everything” kind of note. Be specific. Share exactly how someone has impacted you and why it matters.

2. Catch someone in the act of greatness. Recognize the coworker who’s always behind the scenes making things run smoothly or the friend who shows up no matter what. Give them the credit they often don’t even know they deserve.

3. Create a memory. This could be sharing an experience, giving a meaningful gift, or simply sitting down to tell someone what they mean to you.

Uncommon appreciation isn’t about being soft or overly sentimental - it’s about being authentic and intentional. It’s about cutting through the noise and reminding people (and yourself) what actually matters.

So today, take the challenge. PAUSE. NOTICE. And share your appreciation with someone in a way they’ll never forget. You’ll be amazed at how far this simple act can ripple.

Here’s to ending the year with meaning and impact, and yes-uncommon appreciation.